Keeping it Personal with Stephanie

About Stephanie Page

Steph Page is a wife to one very supportive man and mom to two beautiful girls. She is a speaker, blogger, author and internet marketer. Her heart is to use any and every means available to help people live in their God given purpose. Right now you can find her hanging out with high schoolers as well as helping small businesses succeed online. Steph also partners with her husband in 5th and 6th grade ministry. The heartbeat behind everything she does is her desire to see people know God.
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Bloom

For Mother’s Day this year my husband gave me a baby rose plant. The plant only had two flowers that were beginning to bloom and the rest of the buds were still closed up tight.

As I was looking at this plant dreaming about what it will look like when it is in full bloom I was reminded that it wouldn’t bloom unless I took good care of it. I need to make sure it is placed where the sun shines brightly and I must remember to keep it watered.

This precious plant reminded me of our lives. Each and every life is full of promise. We all have dreams, ideas and opportunities buried in the soil of our soul that have potential to bloom into beautiful flowers. But like me with my plant we also need to nurture those dreams, water those opportunities and protect those ideas.

If I neglect my little plant it will shrivel up and die but if I tend to it carefully watering it and picking off the dead parts it will continue to grow and bloom. In our lives we need to allow ourselves to bloom. Don’t neglect who you have been created to be and what you have been created to do.

How do you do this?

Here are two ways to start you off:

1.  Don’t neglect YOU. So often in life we are running around taking care of everyone else and before we realize it we have neglected ourselves. When was the last time you did something you loved just because you love it? When was the last time you took a few minutes by yourself to think about your life, where you are and where you want to go? Keep yourself well watered and give yourself lots of sunshine and your life will be beautiful to others.

2.  Let people in who will encourage you to bloom. There are those in your life who you will share your dreams with and they will instantly tell you all the reasons why you shouldn’t pursue them. Don’t allow those people in. It is as if they are taking those fragile little buds and snipping them away before allowing them time to grow and blossom. Instead share your dreams and heart selectively with those who will encourage you to press on and show you where you need to be better.

We all were created to be beautiful. To bloom where we’ve been planted and live a life that reflects our Maker well.

Question:  How are you nurturing your dreams and watering opportunities? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

Photo Credit: mauroguanandi {Creative Commons}

The Potters Hands

“O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter?” says the Lord. “Look, as the clay is in the potter’s hand, so are you in My hand, O house of Israel!…And they said, “That is hopeless! So we will walk according to our own plans, and we will every one obey the dictates of his evil heart.’” Jeremiah 18:6, 18:12

I was reading in Jeremiah the other day and as I read I was struck once again with the similarities between my tendencies and the Israelites. One big difference that I am thankful for is that as of now the thoughts that I think that go against what God wants aren’t written in a book that generation after generation will read.

I love Jeremiah 18:6, don’t you? It shows God’s character so strongly. Can’t you hear him, see his pleading eyes?

…Just be in my hand Israel.

…Just trust my plan, my character, my timing.

…Just be in my hand and I will do with you as I have planned. As the clay is in the potter’s hand, so are you in mine.

God says that to you and I as well…

I know you don’t see or understand the future.

I understand that you are anxious about what will happen in your circumstances.

I see that you are struggling.

Will you just rest in my hand- be in my hand and let me take care of it?

Can you see him today?

Looking into your eyes, asking you to relinquish your control?

Just a few verses later (go ahead and read the ones in the middle) Israel gives their answer, “It’s no use, it is hopeless. We will continue with our own plans; we will all follow the stubbornness and the imaginations of our evil hearts.”

I am going to keep it real with you, I have questioned God. I have found myself in situations where I don’t see a way out. I don’t understand what he is doing and why he is choosing to do it this way. I have thought, this is hopeless. It is no use. There is no way out. I need to rely on me now, because quite frankly God, your not cutting it.

Have you been there? Are you there now?

If you resonate with this, I want to encourage you as you read that God sees what you and I do not. He can work in ways you and I can not fathom and just like the Potter can turn out beautiful vessels with a dirty lump of clay, God sees the vessel he desires you and I to become.

Let’s not choose to be like the Israelites today. Instead of holding onto and following the plans we have, let’s put our hope in the Potter. I am choosing to rest in his hand and see what he has planned.

Will You Join Me?

“…As the clay is in the Potter’s hand, so are you in mine. “

Photo Courtesy of John Arrowood Photography

True Friends

friends

Women don't have a very good track record with being good friends. In fact there are so many women walking around with invisible heart scars from harsh words, dirty looks and clickiness, is that even a word?  It is for women. Why is true friendship so hard? Why do we close ourselves in? Why … Continue reading →

Prepared for the Blindside

Blinds

I don’t know about you, but life can catch me off guard. One day everything can be great, the sun is shining, the world is right, relationships are good and then -- bam. A reality check. A situation handled just a bit wrong. What follows? Hurt feelings. Poor choices. Spirits crushed. There … Continue reading →

What Is The Answer?

Helping Hand

Have you ever been called to a task that you have felt inadequate to accomplish? Are you in a place of such intense hurt and pain that the challenge is to simply get through a day? Have your loved ones faded into the background because your time and energy are so focussed on how you will deal … Continue reading →

Do YOU need a good cleaning?

Dishwasher

Does your dishwasher ever run through the mega super clean cycle only for you to open up the steamy machine to dirty dishes? This happens too often at my house. Usually I want to ignore the issue and run it again, hoping that this time the invisible men scrub a little harder to get off last nights … Continue reading →

Division…always a bad thing?

divide

In the past when I thought of the word division or divisive it rubbed me wrong. There is a certain harshness to the thought that people, once united, would decide to divide or head separate ways. I don’t picture a clean break, but one that leaves jagged edges and hard hearts. Recently, there … Continue reading →

Focused, NOT Distracted

Focused, Not Distracted

This quote was posted on Facebook recently... “We are attracted to those who are most like who we want to be.” - KARS As I was scrolling down the page I had to stop and go back because I had read the quote to say something slightly different... “We are distracted by those who are most like … Continue reading →