Keeping it Personal with Martha

About Martha Brady

Martha is a mother to 3 married daughters, a grandma to 6 grandchildren, and a wife to 1 retired pastor. During their 40 years in ministry–either in the US or overseas–she became passionate about helping women understand the grace of God and what it truly is! She believes life is not about me fixing myself up enough to go to God for forgiveness of minor, petty mistakes. It is about God, reaching down to me while I am still a mess. He comes to me before I am cleaned up, loving me and providing a way, through His grace and forgiveness. God’s grace is involved in the grit of our lives, not just the glamor…fortunately! She is a nurse and enjoys writing on her blog.
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Healing Can Bring More Pain

Have you ever noticed times when the healing process can be more painful than the “disease” process was in the first place…

…because it came on so incidiously?

Recently, I went to my eye doctor to get my glasses updated. I was having trouble seeing clearly and thought I probably needed the prescription tweaked; I did, some.  But, my doctor did not like the dryness of my eyes! So, she recommended I started a treatment plan, I did — and now, it has been going on for a few months.

It turns out, my eyes had gotten dry, probably from chronic allergies. After awhile, when I ignored the discomfort, the eyes didn’t feel that bad. However, the dryness was damaging my eyes…

…they were being scratched!

Now, I’m having to use eyedrops to lubricate my eyes as well as drops to lessen the irritation. As my eyes are improving…she has checked them a few times since that first time, I find I notice each little thing that gets near my eyes now. I notice the dryness more now than I did before when they were drier and damaging my eyes more. With healing has come a sensitivity to each hair that comes close to my eyes.

So, what is my point?  As our minds are being renewed by the Holy Spirit, they are being healed. They are twisted and warped without His touch. Only He can give us the values that we need, to live in a fallen, broken world. Only He can make us aware of where we need to change…

…and what we need to change into!

These changes do not come without pain and discomfort. At times, we wonder why we still have pain.  We think we should be beyond it and that we “should” be healed by now. But, with more healing, the more painful will be the reality of the brokenness around us.

As we see and experience forgiveness, receive grace, and the love of God — the more sensitive we are to evil.  We don’t want to go back, we can’t go back…

…the healing has begun.

Redemption and sanctification are progressing; changing us from the inside out. However, we are more sensitive now to sin and its results in our lives than ever before!  This is a good thing.  Even though painful, let the healing continue so our vision will be true. So our eyes will see with wisdom and discernment.

Question: Where do you need the healing of the Holy Spirit in your life regarding sensitivity to something that must change for the healing to continue?  Share your comment by clicking here.

{For further thought: Psalm 51:9-11; Romans 12:1-2; II Corinthians 4:7-9, 16-18; Ephesians 4:20-24; Colossians 3:7-10; Titus 3:4-6. <– May you will find these passages and surrounding verses very encouraging. Like salve to a painful scrape.}

Enjoy Quiet

“Be still and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations…” Psalm 46:10

“…in quietness and in trust shall be your strength, but you would have none of it.” Isaiah 30:15

“…the pause that refreshes” (1929 Coca-Cola slogan)

I remember when I became convinced of the importance to learn how to enjoy being quiet. I knew I needed to learn to be quiet devotionally. But, I also needed to learn to sit quietly and be peaceful at times in everyday life. This was back when my children were small. We didn’t have answering machines, caller ID, personal computers, iphones, itunes or all the other gadgets that take up our time and create “static” in our world.

I’m fidgety. I don’t do still. I don’t do patient. At least I don’t do them naturally. Quiet is not in my nature. I’m more impulsive and reactionary. It’s rather humorous that God put me in the position of being a pastor’s wife and mother. Some of that had to change…

fortunately.

We are a culture that generally doesn’t see benefit in pausing, reflecting, taking breaks…that is, unless we have something that needs to be done during those times. The whole point of quiet, particularly our time with God, is to put aside our own agendas and prioritize His agenda…

…found in His Word.

When I stop and quietly wait before God, He often points out ways His Word applies to the true needs I have. They may not be my “felt needs” …those are often not my real needs at all. I need the quiet to drown out all the craziness that goes on around me.

How do we enjoy quiet?

Here are some ways I’ve learned to enjoy quiet…

Through my children.  It was a side benefit, but after a noisy, squealy day with a house full of girls, quiet was a great relief!

Feeding my thoughts through reading scripture.  This prompts my thinking and prayers in positive ways along God’s agenda, not mine. Reading from the Psalms or parts of many of the prophetic books, like Isaiah, point my thoughts toward God and who He is!  It takes me away from my small little world here and transports me into a place where, for just a few moments, I see life from GOD’s perspective.

It is a place where…

…nothing is impossible, if it is within His will for me.
…in the end, GOD will be victorious over evil.  I see how majestic He is.
…justice will prevail, eventually.
…God is on the throne; He is in control, a Holy place.

For a few minutes each day, I need to think about that. I need to have that as a basis for my prayer, devotional time and everyday living. It is not a time where my guilt over what I’m not doing for God is paramount.  This is a good thing…

…and it keeps me quiet.

When I get that, and I’m only starting to, I will be like many of the prophets…and shut my mouth. A wonderful place to stop!  A wonderful place to enjoy quiet.

Question:  What do you intentionally do to enjoy quiet?  Have you found enjoyment in the quiet?  Share you comment by clicking here.

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