Keeping it Personal with Kari

About Kari Day

Kari is a wife to a hardworking man of God, and a busy work at home mom to 3 crazy kids. She occasionally dreams about having a whole half an hour to herself to actually read a book undisturbed while eating a piece of dark chocolate (without sharing). She is the co-founder of Allied Women, reluctant blogger, and passionate about helping women to be able to run business, family, and home seamlessly together in a way that will glorify the Lord. Kari fell in love with Jesus when, after a life in bondage, He set her free in an instant, radically changed her, and loved her into healing. Her life is now her love affair with her redeemer.
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Seeing Through the Fog

The other day my six-year-old son says to me, “Mom, you know fog is like sin, and the sun is like Jesus.”

Boy, isn’t that the truth. Don’t you love how sometimes the simple lessons of life can be summed up perfectly by a six year old? And how God can use a simple statement like that to speak volumes of truth?

As I started thinking about this truth, it occurred to me that there was an even deeper truth here that God wanted to show to me. He wanted to show me how the tiniest seed of fear, pride, insecurity, or rebellion could work its way into a fog so thick that I can’t see the steps in front of me.

And by allowing the fog to remain I become crippled and ineffective for God’s glory. God suddenly feels illusive, and his plans for me are hidden.

In a fog I…

  • Can’t see what’s ahead of me.
  • Can’t see what’s coming at me.
  • Can’t see what’s behind me.
  • I am only able to focus on the immediate.

I actually can get fixated on what is directly in front of me and I am powerless to do anything other than react to things as they happen.

I become a sitting duck waiting to be pummeled by the enemy.

This is not living victoriously through Christ.

When I was young, a neighbor of mine was trapped on a lonely highway in a fog so dense that he couldn’t see past the hood of his car. While creeping along he hit something and pulled over. When he got out of his car to see what he had hit a semi truck came plowing through the fog at a high speed and hit him and his car. He and his wife’s bodies were shattered and in critical condition. They ultimately survived, but were forever damaged by that terrible accident.

How much more damaging is it for us when we allow anything to get between our self and God?

How many semi trucks of life have hit me because I have allowed the fog to cover my view of God?

How have I allowed the paralyzing fog of fear, insecurity, pride, or rebellion to steal my effectiveness?

God is not paralyzed.  He is not in a fog.  Semi-trucks don’t surprise him.

He is more powerful than my fear, my pride, my insecurity, and my rebellion. And he has made a way. He gives us power to overcome that fog. To speak to it and have it lifted. To trust in him and be set free of it’s blinding cover. He is the Son of God. The One and Only.

“In him {Jesus} was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it.” John 1:4-5

Just as the sun burns through a thick fog making vision clear again, so the SON burns through our fog, making us effective for him. I love it!

It is not us who are effective for God…

…it is God MAKING us effective.

It’s still all about him! We utterly need him. We utterly must rely on him. He is the light in the darkness.

Photo Credit: Klis

Trusting in the Silence

Have you felt that you were waiting for God? Did you ever feel like the wallflower at the party? Or that God was like a date and you were stood up?

What do you do when God is silent?

Do you standstill? Do you brazenly move forward? Do you make inquiry after inquiry only to hear silence?

Recently I was faced with this. I waited for God to rescue me. I felt like a bruised and battered soldier. One who had given it all on the battlefield and then was forgotten. My heart was hurt less about the battle wounds and more about the thought that God was silent with me.

Where was he? Where was my rescuer? Why had he left me?

The truth is that God is sometimes more at work when He is silent than when we see His hand working out right…

…this is a hard lesson.

One that:

  • Joseph had to learn when he was on the road into slavery at the hands of his brothers.
  • David had to learn running from Saul
  • Paul had to learn while in utter despair in Asia

One each of us learns when we walk this life of faith. We must never mistake God’s silence for God’s inactivity. He is working all things out for our favor and He is teaching us to trust Him.

My 3 year old was anxious about getting something from the store the other day. She wanted to go “right now!” and get what she wanted. If you are a parent, you know that sometimes trying to explain the logistics of why something can’t happen to a 3 year old is pointless. It just wasn’t her time yet.

How often have we begged at God for something only to hear silence? Perhaps it wasn’t our time yet.

In James 1 it says

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when ever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

I don’t know about you, but I like the thought of not lacking anything, and being complete. That’s going to take some perseverance for me for sure!

Don’t let your faith waiver in the silence. Don’t let doubt steal your perseverance from you. God is listening; he has not stood you up. He is teaching you to trust him.

Photo Credit:  Roskifte

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