Keeping it Personal with Gaye Lindfors

About Gaye Lindfors

Gaye loves to laugh, and isn't afraid to poke fun at her own mishaps. With authenticity, passion, and humor, she helps women develop a deeper and richer faith life while they reconnect to what matters most. As an observer of life in the real world, Gaye shares encouraging stories from the heart that engage and inspire her audiences and readers. Through her speaking and writing, she helps women discover more focus, more courage, more hope, and more peace in their daily living. Gaye is the author of God, Girlfriends, & Chocolate and is a contributing author to Don't Miss Your Boat: Living Your Life With Purpose in the Real World. Gaye and her husband live in St. Paul, MN. She considers the times spent laughing with her sisters (‘til it hurts!), to be some of life’s best moments.
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Let God be God

 

Where is God when your heart is breaking?
When you’ve been unemployed for 14 months and despair is setting in?
When illness has taken over your body and there is no cure?

He’s right there.
Sitting next to you.
Holding your hand.
Feeling your pain.

God doesn’t leave us when times are tough.  Our big deal problems don’t scare Him or make Him nervous…

…our pain and sadness don’t chase Him away.

Joshua 1:9 “…Be strong and courageous.  Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

 

John 14:27 “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.  I do not give to you as the world gives.  Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

God’s words are not phrases from Hallmark cards.  They come from the mouth of the The Most Holy One.  The God who loves us more than we can comprehend.  They are promises that He must and will keep…

…because He is God.

I must remember that God never gets off his throne.  God is always God.  Nothing changes that.

Give Him your pain. Your tears. Ask Him to wrap his arms around you and take your sorrow.

Stop trying to fix it on your own. 

Let God be God.

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My Worries: My Response

This morning I woke up wondering, “What was my brain doing during the night?”

My body hasn’t even realized I’m awake, and my mind and heart are flooded with worries and anxieties: projects that need to be completed, business challenges, deep heartaches of family and friends, natural disasters, the homeless, and the list continues.

My heart is heavy, there’s tension in my muscles, and I am very overwhelmed.

What was my mind doing the last six hours that brings this feeling of hopelessness before I even get out of bed?

My reaction is instinctive: try and solve the problems and stay in this land of worry until I can fix them…

…Yea, like that helps.

I’m learning to change my reaction and behaviors when these thoughts try and steal my peace and joy.  And I’ve discovered there’s only one place that will set a new course for my day: the arms of my Heavenly Father.  And it’s in His arms that I place my Bible on my lap and search for the promises that will change my thinking.

Two things I am reminded of:

1)      God cares about my worries.  “Are not two sparrows sold for a penny?  Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father.  And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered.  So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows” (Matt. 10:29 NIV).

2)      God gives me hope.  “But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness.  ‘The Lord is my portion,’ says my soul, ‘therefore I will hope in him’” (Lamentations 3:21-24 RSV).

I choose to believe those promises and in doing so, my thinking begins to change.  I recognize that I can’t solve those problems by worrying about them, and that God is still in control.

God is a merciful, gracious, loving Heavenly Father.

I think this is part of learning to live with purpose.
Choosing what I think about.
Choosing my response.
And recognizing—always—that God is God.
His promises never fail.

He is faithful.

Question:  What phrase, word, or promise gives you strength or encouragement when the day ahead seems a bit overwhelming? Share your comment by clicking here.

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