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About Deborah Hightower

Deborah Hightower’s hyphenate: financial consultant-speaker-songwriter-singer-author-expansion expert. In the financial arena, Deborah helps individuals, corporations, and organizations develop and implement comprehensive plans for accumulation and/or distribution of wealth. She holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Business with a minor in Communication; a Master’s Degree in Organization and Management; and is well on her way to completing a PhD in Leadership. She holds several professional designations and is well versed in the challenging financial issues of today.
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Money, Money and More Money in 2013

We are a couple weeks into 2013. How many of your New Year’s resolutions have already bit the dust? As the saying goes – “it’s easier said than done” and when it comes to money, often we make it a self-fulfilling prophesy. We think it’s too hard and we just. don’t. do. it.

However, if we plan our work and work our plan, 2013 can be the year of BIG money success. Let me offer several pointers for making it happen.

Repeat after me: “I will know these important figures”:

1.  MONEY IN, MONEY OUT

  • Dollars earned (net, in your pocket, figure) for the month
  • Dollars spent on recurring fixed monthly expenses (mortgage, car note, daycare, etc)
  • Dollars spent on food, gas, lunches
  • Dollars allocated for allowances (for adults – a percentage of the net, in your pocket, figure)
  • Dollars for the piggy (should be a small percentage of the net, in your pocket, figure and used for birthday gifts, evenings out, and other miscellaneous items)

2.  PAYOFFs

  • Mortgage Balance and payoff date
  • What-if scenarios. For example, if I add $50 more to the mortgage payment, how much sooner will my mortgage be paid off?
  • The big picture for car loans, credit card debt, etc. For example, how much does it really cost to charge a big-screen TV?

3.  SAVE NOW FOR LATER

  • Current balance in retirement plans
  • Contribution amounts (personal and company)
  • Projected figures. For example, $10,000 now = $76, 123 in 30 years at 7 percent)
  • Balance in the rainy-day fund and the definition of a rainy-day emergency

4.  SAVE NOW FOR NOW RATHER THAN LATER

  • Begin to save (even a small increments) for vacay and special events and keep up with the balances and savings rate
  • Begin to save (even in small increments) for this year’s holiday spending

Investing the time to get these figures together (make a note in your calendar or journal) will keep you on target throughout the year. This time next year, you will be surprised how much you have accomplished.

Remember, a good steward always knows what they have, what they need, and the plan to get there.

Celebrate the Reason

I typically think in terms of song lyrics and math formulas…

…naturally.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year with kids jingle-belling and everyone telling you be of good cheer” – kisses under the mistletoe, beautiful Christmas, and presents with shiny bows — the average family will spend $749.51 this holiday season“jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way” — a large percentage of people will use credit cards to buy the $749.51 of goods and spend an additional $69 and 11 monthly payments of $75 to pay for it —  “Santa Baby, slip a sable under the tree for me, I’ve been an awful good girl Santa baby, so hurry down the chimney tonight” – a savings of $62.50 per month will get $750 for next Christmas expenditures  – this gift is SO cool and didn’t blow my budget — “I’m dreaming of a white Christmas”

…and it goes on and on.

The money spent on presents, calories consumed with family and friends, the stress of making it all come beautifully together, and all while keeping careers, laundry and schedules on target make me ponder the question, “have we put all these things ahead of the real reason Christmas even exists?”

One of my favorite Christmas tunes is Mary Did You Know (on my Beautiful Christmas album) and as a woman, it makes me wonder…

…what must have been rushing through her mind?
…could she have known…really known… that carrying and birthing the Messiah was such a big deal?
…could she have known that He would “calm the storm with his hand, heal the blind, save the nations”?

Let’s review: she was a young virgin girl; she harkened to the call of God; she became pregnant without a husband; she could have been sentenced to death; Joseph could have called her a liar; and she could simply have said ‘no’ to the call of God. Instead, the answer ‘yes’ brought with it the ultimate responsibility.

Yes, the Messiah’s birth is the reason for the season.

Have we let consumerism distract us from celebrating the Savior’s birth? Have we put our focus on the gifts, eggnog, and festivities?

This Christmas season, I hope you will focus on the things that are priceless, have no calorie content, and are irreplaceable. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

  • Spend time with family reading the Christmas story…the real one.
  • Sing carols …classics, brand new ones, and ones you make up on the spot
  • Reminisce about the past year and dream about the one coming
  • Thank God for the blessings – let everyone tell for what they are most thankful. Little things can matter BIG.
  • Take time for personal meditation and reflection.

The real Christmas story requires unmitigated faith – without it one cannot possibly understand. As the scriptures say, “the natural mind not knoweth the things of God”.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

As a special gift to you — if you would like to receive a FREE download of Mary Did You Know, send me an email to deborah@deborahhightower.com.

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